Showing posts with label Health tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Health tips. Show all posts
Wednesday, July 06, 2011

Boy or girl

Now let's remember that doctors have also told us that the sperm picks the gender. Girl sperm are slow but last and last. And Male sperm are fast but die quickly. So if you are looking to have a girl, try having sex only from days 10-13 of your monthly cycle. And if you are looking to have a boy, try having sex at the very end. Like days 17-20. Thus, a girl sperm can make it all the way up the fallopian tubes to find that freshly released egg, where as a boy sperm will get to the egg first if it's already closer to the vagina. Just remember this is not fool proof. You get what you get and you can't send it back!
Read more: How to Get Pregnant With a Boy or a Girl
eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/how_4996642_pregnant-boy-girl.html#ixzz1OTiMfbNf
 
You are said to conceive a girl if:

  • you have sex a few days before your day of ovulation. Female sperm are thought to be stronger and therefore last longer than male sperm, which may die off before reaching the egg.
  • you stop having unprotected sex four to five days before ovulation, to minimise the chances of the male sperm reaching the egg first
  • you have sex frequently to lower your partner's sperm count, and so increase the chances of the female sperm reaching the egg first
  • you keep penetration shallow
  • your partner reaches orgasm before you
  • you drink plenty of milk and eat dairy products such as cheese and yoghurt, unsalted foods, rice, pasta, certain vegetables, mineral water, limited amounts of meat and potatoes
  • you avoid salt and any salty foods, wine and beer, fresh fruit, spinach, tomatoes and mushrooms, chocolate, coffee and tea.
  • your partner keeps his genitals warm by wearing close-fitting underwear and tight trousers (although this isn't likely to do his general fertility any good!)
  • you suggested the love-making
  • you make love in the afternoon
  • you make love on even days of the month
  • you put a wooden spoon under your bed and a pink ribbon under your pillow
You are said to conceive a boy if:

  • you have sex on the day of ovulation. Male sperm are thought to swim faster and reach the egg first.
  • you avoid sex for a week before ovulation and then only have sex once on ovulation day, to keep the sperm count high
  • your partner has a high sperm count. Male sperm are not as strong as female sperm, and so the higher the count, the more chance there is of a male sperm reaching the egg first
  • you have deep penetration during sex
  • you reach orgasm before your partner, this releases an alkaline fluid thought to be more male-sperm friendly than the vagina's natural acidity
  • you eat salty food, plenty of meat, fish, white flour, pasta, fresh fruit, certain vegetables
  • you avoid milk and dairy products, such as yoghurt and cheese, nuts, chocolate, shellfish and wholemeal bread.
  • your partner keeps his genitals cool by wearing boxer shorts and loose-fitting trousers
  • your partner suggested the love-making
  • you make love at night
  • you make love on odd days of the month
http://www.askbaby.com/boy-or-girl.htm
Boy or girl, baby, ur still rock my bedeng deng, my lil' rockstar!!!!!!!!
ily!!!
Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Shoutbox and comments 2

guest: hi darling. how many cards did you give out? im really scared that my majlis tak cukop makanan. lol.

I ordered 550 cards. The Cards were purchased at Angsana at RM $1.20 as mentioned in this post. The DIY cards was a cheap alternatives to the original ones. I called Angsana and asked if I can print another extra 200 pieces but they mentioned minimum card to print is 500 pieces. Buat apa nak banyak banyak, so I end up DIYing the cards.

I dig out my cupboards for colour papers, print 250 pieces at work, cut the paper into half, and wrap the paper with tracing paper which I purchase from Popular ($3.40 for 50 pieces). Wrap the whole thingy with ribbons and pasted the left over stickers from the berkat. So total I keluarkan 800 cards and inform the caterer on the increase on the pax.


Lydia: Hello Fei,another passer by here. Congrats on ur marriage! Btw,could you share..where and how much u bought corset. So stress as there are so many kinds of it. Thank you!

Lydia, I tak beli corset, I bought a girdle cum corset, called spanx. I got mine online. Its a breeze wearing this, its tight but I can still breathe. Its like girdle but I manage to pull it all the way to cover my boobs. It totally flatten the tummy. There is something with the material, its quite thin but It works for me. Oprah, Jessica Alba, Kim Kardashian and many other celeb swear by spanx.
If ur not a fan of online shopping you can grab something similar to this from Marks and Spencer. Ketok duit sikit ah, but we girls do need some sort of supports. So long run its better we invest on a good quality girdle.
 
Dun buy the chepo chepo girdle kat kedai bawah block or pasar, they do work but when your wearing it for more than 6 hours with songket berat nak mams, confirm you will berpeluh pelih. The thick girdle material will not let ur skin breathe and end up you will have rashes all over ur tummy.

guest: hey fei. i love your blog. i need help, how to lose weight for my big day? im slightly gempal & im wondering if you have any tips. ive tried exercising & jaga makan but tak work. my fam badan besar2.

Guest, I so feel you. I am a very big bone girl myself. I have never been thin, I have always been big. To make thing worst, I do have  frens who gave ugly remarks for every inch or kilos that I put on. Giving unneccessary stress. So if you do have frens like that, ignore their remark and just focus on losing weight.

3 months prior to my wedding, I took up classes at the sengkang sport centre. I took the abs, bun and thigh and body sculp classes. Once a week for 3 months for $65 (12 lessons). Click the link below for sport centre near your home. SSC Sport Centre. Feeling di hati nak enrol kat amore tapi pikir kan registration fee that I need to pay monthly sungguh menyedihkan. So I sign up the cheaper way. And my instructor, Raiqal, this very mat melayu that have a body like Johnny Bravo, was so fun, mula mula malu nak mampos girl, bila dia suruh buat sit up, tapi lama lama, jadi members.

I felt working out as a group is so much better and more progressive than running or jogging alone. You have more disipline. Kalau lari sorang kan, larinya 10 mins, jalan 50mins. I always feel motivated in class, kalau nyonya kat sebelah tu boleh buat so can I, kalau makcik melayu yg slalu kat belakang class tu boleh buat, so can I. You really feel motivated and its  much more fun.
Another tips is not to supper or makan malam. Datin close the kitchen at 8pm daily when the date got nearer

Skarang after more than 3 months of marriage, I have piled up all the kilos back. And yes they have made their remarks, 'Mcm dah gems jer?' 'Kau pulak dah lebar'. Throw all the negativity aside. I have sweat my ass off before, now let me have my sugar back. Bulan 4 kita start abs, bun and thigh class balik eh.
Wednesday, June 02, 2010

Fat Bride can be pretty

I never terpikir of wearing a dress during my wedding, kebaya labuci labuci tu adalah, tapi gown gown cantik tak ader feeling feeling nak pakai.

The tuns was really on asking me to wear a gown, bukannya apa, I takut kalau I pakai, the tuns will change his mind. I'm too fat to fit into a gown. Buat malu jer kalau pakai, skali jalan terkoyak ker apa ker...

I often viewed Versarieade website. I just love love love their baju and make up. Their baju variety tak byk, I kept seeing brides wearing the same baju over and over but all their baju really really cantik. All with high neckline with a touch of traditional. I was lepaking one day and chilling with the tuns and he mentioned in one of the album, 'kalau she can wear takkan u tak boleh?' The girl customised the baju, mestilah boleh, kalau ader duit semua boleh. He gave me the pout.

I sebenarnya segannnn lah nah nak pakai gown, tapi si tuns ni mcm dah kemarok jer... and so something have to be done. Apa lagi operation diet chateu ah...

I was reading Nona Kirana's blog. Sorry side track skit. We have the same wedding date and I found out from kak mel dat she dah chop the Kraton theme. Ceh!!! Tak per tak per, choose lain, mcm biasa lembab sangat. Ok back to Nona's, dunnoe y when I look at her she remind me of my mama... hahaha. In one of her entry on Jan 11, 2010, she wrote on her journey to battle her weight problem. I see myself when I read the entry. She start off at 90kg and the lowest she's been was 63kg. I was never an 'average' girl, I had been overweight all my life. I remember the day I start off at 72kg when I weigh myself at the clinic and the lowest I've been was 63kg, dats the lowest I've been for the past 12 years. I was 65kg during my tunang day and now the scale keep creeping up. I'm trying not to let the scale creep to 70kg, kalau tak jahanam tu weighing scale, gua baling.

I'm working hard to have a healthy lifestyle, pple may say, 'Pergi class samer jer tak ader different?' I dun care. But I feel fitter, walau pun tk byk or tak ader weight lose, but I do feel healthy, fitter and less tired.

Now dah masok june, lagi 6 bulan babe... 'YOU CAN DO IT BRUSSO?'
Tuesday, April 06, 2010

Go away fats... kita nak cantik time kawin!

Ask Jillian Michaels - Sexy, Sculpted Arms - Untuk yg mengeletis utk pakai tube dress time kawin - M dengar tak?

Q: My arms are a flabby mess. Do you have a simple exercise to tone them up?

A:
Absolutely! I've got just the thing. With toned triceps you can wave to your fans all you want (no more upper-arm jiggle!). Get started with tricep kickbacks, a terrific beginner exercise for sculpting the backs of your upper arms:

Tricep Kickbacks
  • Hold a dumbbell in each hand and stand with your feet hip-width apart with a slight bend to your knees.
  • Bend over at the waist so that your torso is slightly above parallel with the floor.
  • Bend both elbows so that your upper arms are locked at your sides parallel to the floor.
  • Keeping your arms still, straighten your arms behind you until the end of the dumbbell is pointing down toward the floor with your palms facing in towards your body.
  • Hold for a beat and inhale, slowly lowering your arms back to the starting position, and repeat.
  • To do this properly, remember to keep your abs tight and your back flat.
Just to remind my self-
Kalau orang lain boleh buat so can you. NAK NGAN TAK NAK JER!!!!!

Advice from her to others:
•Educate yourself on weight loss and health as much as possible. Listen to those who’ve been there before you, and allow them to help you.

•Find a workout buddy, a partner in crime. Pick someone who will push you when you need the encouragement but who can also comfort you when the stress gets hard to manage.
•Take pictures along the way. I have trouble seeing changes in the mirror, but I can tell the difference in photos.

•Believe in yourself and know that you'll cross the finish line. No one can want it bad enough for you. You have to want it for yourself — and more than anything.
 
Inspiringkan.... ok mar i'm with you... gym, 3 times a week. Insyallah.
Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Nak Kurus pls....

Q) What's the best way to lose fat and get an ideal physique?

A) The best way to accomplish this is through a proper nutrition and training plan. Nutrition won't be covered in this thread(maybe in another thread), but training would include the following:

- Weight lifting compound free weights with short rest intervals

- High intensity interval training(HIIT)

Both these methods will be elaborated on later.

Q) But what about jogging for cardio? Isn't that the best way of losing weight?

A) No. In fact, it can be counter productive. You see, jogging is a form of steady state cardio exercise. What this means is that you keep a rather low speed that you're able to sustain for long periods of time. The premise of this exercise for weight loss is that you are able to run longer, hence burning more calories. However, there are problems with this.

- The more you run, the more efficient you become at running. As you get more efficient, your body will burn less calories. Imagine a car driving on a highway at 60km/h. It will achieve its highest fuel efficiency, meaning it will burn less fuel. The body acts the same way. This is great if your mission is to run a marathon, but bad if your mission is to burn calories and fat!

- The more you run, the more you waste your muscles. Muscle mass cannot be built or even maintained by running. In fact, running for long durations will actually bring your body into a catabolic state, meaning your muscles will start burning away. If your goal is to reduce your body fat percentage, then it would be in your best interest to keep as much muscle mass as you can, or even increase it. Running, or any other steady state aerobic exercise doesn't achieve this.

Q) OK, so if I don't run, what do I do for cardio?

A) High intensity interval training(HIIT), mentioned above. HIIT is a method of cardio work where you work at full intensity for a short burst, followed by resting for a slightly longer period of time. An example would be sprinting full speed for 30s on the track, then resting for 60s. Typically HIIT sessions are completed within 10mins. In unconditioned beginners, 1-2min might be all they can sustain.

Q) 10 mins? But I heard that you only start burning fat after 20mins

A) That is a myth that has been spread for years, and one that needs to be eliminated. At best, it is a half truth. You see, your body initially uses your glycogen stores to fuel the activity, and gradually shifts towards using fat stores as fuel. The ratio shifts more towards fats as you run more than 20mins. It doesn't mean that you're burning no fat before 20mins and all fat after. In any case, this ratio is not as important as people would like you to believe, because the overall calories and fat loss due to HIIT is more than what you would get if you just jogged more than 20min. Do you know when your body is burning the highest percentage of fats? When you're sleeping! That's right, but you don't expect anyone to tell you to sleep to lose fat anytime soon

Also, steady state cardio burns calories mostly during the activity itself. However, HIIT burns calories during the activity itself, as well as hours after the activity. Simply put, after an intense HIIT bout, you'd be burning more calories even while you're sleeping!

Q) Huh? HIIT burns calories after the session? How is this possible?

A) It is possible due to 2 factors - EPOC and hormonal response

EPOC - stands for excess post-exercise oxygen consumption, aka the oxygen debt, or afterburn. What this means is that because of the added stress and trauma you've put your body through in an intense HIIT session, your body needs fuel to repair cells, decrease your body temperature, etc. All this takes energy...a lot of energy if your training was intensive.

Hormonal response - An intensive training session, including HIIT, triggers the release of many anabolic(muscle building) hormones, as well as others involved in fat loss. The hormonal response is perhaps the biggest contributor to fat loss.

Q) So HIIT is better than jogging/swimming/other steady state aerobic exercise?

A) For fat loss and conditioning, yes. Contrary to popular belief, the human species was never made to run long distances. Our early ancestors didn't chase their prey over long distances to catch them for food...they sprinted short distances and killed them with tools. A recent study actually found excessive aerobic exercise to be detrimental to cardiovascular health, effects of which include the downsizing of the heart. This could be the reason why we've seen so many triathletes and runners pass away before their time recently. In addition to cardiovascular health concerns, jogging is also notorious for being bad for the joints. I'm sure you've read or heard that every step you take while jogging puts many times your weight on the joints of your legs. Besides this, joggers are also known to have severe muscular imbalances due to the repetitive and concentrated nature of the activity. What this means is that some of their muscles are much weaker, or much less flexible than others. This can lead to compensation in movement patterns, leading to injury. Another point more pertaining to women - women in general are less suitable for jogging than their male counterparts, because of something called the "Q-angle". Simply put, the Q-angle is the angle of the thigh bone from the hip. Because women have wider hips and narrow knees, they also have larger Q-angles, making you more prone to knee and other joint injuries. In fact if you look at the elite runners, they all pretty much look like men as far as their Q-angle is concerned - they have narrow hips and smaller breasts. They are better suited for running. Most women aren't.

Q) Wow! That sounds like scary stuff! I guess I shouldn't jog at all!

A) Not necessarily. There's no need to avoid jogging/swimming/steady state aerobic exercise if you truly enjoy it. However, don't make it the core of your exercise regime. As long as you also train your body with HIIT, you can counter the negative cardiovascular effects that steady state exercise brings.

Q) OK, so how exactly do I perform this "HIIT"?

A) There are several protocols. You can do it sprinting on a track, on a stationary bike, sprinting up stairs or up a slope, with bodyweight exercises such as burpees, squats, lunges, etc. However, stay away from the treadmill and elliptical because the former can cause joint problems and the latter's arc is unnatural and awkward. For beginners, you generally want to start with a 1:4 work:rest ratio. What this means is that if you sprint for 30s, you rest for 2min. Depending on the difficulty of the activity(sprinting up stairs is harder than sprinting on a track for example), you should be working for about 15-40s, and then resting for 4x that. Experiment with the timings to suit your own physical fitness levels. Generally you want to time it such that you are feeling ok for 1-2 sets, even when you are doing it the fastest and hardest you can. The numbers of sets you do this again depends on your physical fitness level. A general guide is to do as many sets as you can before puking If this idea makes you cringe, another idea would be to perform as many sets as you can before performance drops considerably. For example if you managed to do about 15 burpees for each workset, stop the exercise once your performance drops to considerably to 10 burpees. This is just a rough guide...you have to work these figures out by experimenting.

Q) How often should I do HIIT?

A) Depends on what else you are doing, your sleep, your nutrition, and a host of other factors. If HIIT is all you are doing for exercise, you can do it everyday assuming you have good nutrition and rest. You see, HIIT is metabolically and neurally intensive. You need to provide your body with the necessary rest and nutrition in order for it to repair itself in time for the next bout. If not, you will feel lethargic, depressed, tired and generally unmotivated. For a beginner I would keep it to about 3X max a week, and less if you're involved in other physical activity.

Q) How long do I have to do HIIT before I lose xxx kg?

A) I can't tell you that because I don't know how much you weight, what's your body fat percentage, and what your goals are. I can however say this much - if you keep working at it, coupled with proper nutrition and rest, the fat will come melting off, and this will keep you motivated. Ideally you should be doing this for the rest of your life! It is not something you do for a few weeks, lose the kilos, then stop...it is a lifestyle change.

Q) I must keep doing it? But I have no time...

A) HIIT takes just 10minutes of your time AT MOST. It can take as short as 4-5mins if you adjust the parameters right. If you have time to read through this post, you have time to do HIIT. No excuses.
Q) I've been doing HIIT for 2min each time for a couple of weeks and I've lose a few inches here and there, and now HIIT seems easy. Is this normal?

A) Yes, because you're getting fitter! You need some form of progression. For HIIT there are many parameters you can tweak to progress

- increase number of sets: if you're doing 2 sets, increase this to 3.

- increase work:rest ratio: 1:4 is for beginners. You can keep working your way up until one day you might be fit enough to do 2:1 for several sets! One of the HIIT methods using this ratio is called the "Tabata method" that calls for work sets of 20s with a 10s rest, done 8X over 4minutes. Japanese researchers who discovered this method found it to improve both aerobic and anaerobic conditioning, which is a very rare occurence. You can be assured that it's great for fat loss too!

- change the difficulty of the exercise: if you were sprinting on a track, try sprinting up a slope. If you were doing a normal burpee, try doing a burpee with a pushup and then a jump at the end. There are many ways to make the exercise more difficult. Use your imagination.

As you can see, there are several ways to progress, but none of these ways involve increasing the amount of time HIITing more than 10min. This saves time while giving superior results!

Q) When should I perform HIIT?

A) If you're doing only HIIT, any time. However, if you're also doing weight lifting(described later on), preferably at the end of the lifting session, because of 2 reasons

- Doing HIIT at the beginning would decrease your strength training's performance

- Doing HIIT at the end brings about a stronger hormonal response.

If you're doing HIIT at the end, make sure to keep the entire session(lifting included) within about 50min though. This will be explained later in the strength training section.

Q) What if I experience pain when doing HIIT?

A) If it's a joint pain, STOP immediately and identify where the pain is coming from, and is it an old injury, etc. This FAQ assumes you are a healthy individual with no injuries, so if you have an existing condition, please seek medical advice.

If it's a muscular pain, then no problem. Stretching will help. Be careful not to get cramps though as they are painful

So to a certain Ms Michael, may i say or shout out loud, 'UR METHOD ROCKS!!!!!!'
Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Yeah Prata after work out...

Ask Jillian Michaels

When to Eat?

Q: Is it better to eat a meal before or after a workout?

A:
Both. Here's what I like to do: have my breakfast at 9 a.m., work out from 10:30 to 12, and eat by 1 p.m. Here's why:

Back in the old days, people thought they should train on an empty stomach in order to burn more fat, but that has turned out to be FALSE. In fact, your body needs some glucose (blood sugar) for fuel in addition to what it can use from fat stores when you're working out. If you don't have any blood sugar available, your body will eat the muscles' glycogen, or stored glucose. Low blood sugar will also make you tired and sluggish during your training session. For these reasons, I suggest you eat something 45 minutes to an hour before training — you'll have more energy and endurance to work harder, burn more calories, and improve your muscle tone.

After training, during a period known as the golden hour (45 to 60 minutes after a workout), muscles absorb the most nutrients, and glycogen is replaced the most efficiently. You don't have to have a huge meal — just a little something that contains both protein and carbs will give the best results.

Hello prata and teh tarik!!!!!
Friday, October 30, 2009

Remember ah...

To lose a pound, you must burn 3,500 calories

1 pound = 0.45359237 kg
2 pound = 0.90718474 kg

and i need to loose 44 pounds = 19.958064280000002 = burning 154,000

pelan pelan kayuh eh sayang, slowly ride ah darling
 

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